Reflections

22 03 2012

I like to keep things pretty light around here, but as I wrote what was on my mind, it just kinda happened to get a little more serious. I hope you don’t mind; lighthearted reads will return soon!

As I was swimming the other day, I was reflecting on what’s been happening in my life over the past 2 months. Here’s a few of my thoughts:

1) Moving across the country and starting a new job is HARD.

I was in my old job for nearly 5 years before leaving. So, it had kinda been awhile since I’d been the new kid on the block, and I forgot what that was like. Well, for the past few months I’ve felt like I’m playing catch up, trying to learn everything I can so I can actually DO the job they hired me for. And the playing catch up hasn’t been the hardest part; there’s a tremendous amount of work that needs to get done, all within a very tight time frame. Needless to say, the past few weeks have been incredibly busy and stressful. I barely had time to do anything other than eat, sleep, and work. I want to go out and explore my new city, meet new people, and start to lay some roots, but there just hasn’t been time, which was incredibly frustrating to me. I called/saw Bill several times last month and flat out cried because I was so miserable. He is incredibly supportive, always there for me when I need him, helping me to think realistically and positively about the situation, and doing sweet things to cheer me up:

exhibit A:

exhibit B:

I’ve also received some very sweet emails and messages checking in on how I was doing. Thank you everyone! And, thanks to social media, I’ve been able to connect with a few blogger/twitter friends to hang out/workout with. That’s made the transition a little easier, and luckily, work this week has been better (so far) too.  I’m hopeful that it will continue to improve. It just takes time to transition. 🙂

2) Whoever said, “You can’t go home,” was right.

I had the opportunity to go back to DC last weekend, and though I had an absolute BLAST, it didn’t feel the same. Maybe it was because I was crashing on couches and felt a little like a nomad, but it just wasn’t home anymore. I still LOVE DC, and can’t wait to plan another trip back, but the place I called home for 7 years, just isn’t anymore.

They also say that home is where the heart is, and I think I’m on board with that. Bill and my kitties are in Florida, and my heart is most certainly with them. I’ve had my kitties for two short months and they’ve easily won me over. The highlight of my day is walking home to little “Meows” and “Purrs,” from these cute faces:

This guy doesn’t purr, nor do I get to see him everyday, but he does make my heart go thump thump thump:

3) Take nothing for granted.

Two weeks ago, one of my coworkers left the office early because her daughter called to tell her that she needed emergency surgery. Unfortunately, her daughter never made it into the operating room; she passed away before they could help her. She was a healthy 22 year old who died unexpectedly. When we got the call, we were all in a state of shock. And though I don’t know my coworker that well yet and I never met her daughter, I was struck to the core. You never know what the day will bring. So tell the ones close to you that you love them and take nothing for granted.

Sorry to get so deep on you today, but I just wanted to share what’s been on my mind.

Have a great day friends!

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9 responses

22 03 2012
Victoria

I think this blog needs more kitten pictures.

23 03 2012
321delish

Haha oh there will be for sure!

22 03 2012
katie

Aw, I’m so sorry you are struggling, friend. Your internet friends are here for you!

23 03 2012
321delish

Thanks Katie! Internet friends are awesome:)

22 03 2012
2chickschallenge

Sometimes we just need to share what’s on our minds even if it is “deep”. Life is too short to take things for granted, but often we still take too many things for granted. The reminder is greatly appreciated.

22 03 2012
Theresa (@ActiveEggplant)

Moving across the country really IS hard! I moved from PA to FL back in 2004 and it was the scariest – and most exciting – time of my life. Granted, I had it a bit easier because I was moving in order to move in my my fiance, but it was still super stressful to start over and be in an unfamiliar city and new job. Hope things continue to get easier for you – it definitely sound like you’re headed in the right direction!

23 03 2012
321delish

Thanks for the encouragement!

4 06 2012
movingonmyown

I’m having so much fun reading your blog! I’m graduating from college in December in Indiana and am planning on moving to the Tampa or panhandle area in the summer by myself. Scared and yet super excited! Reading about your adventures has been awesome!
Thanks for the posts!

4 06 2012
321delish

Thanks so much! I’m glad you found me! Good luck with the move:) I love Tampa so far!

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